2014 Shows

Ben says his wife, Kelly, convinced him to get married six months ago, and as soon as the paperwork was signed, she completely changed -- for the worse! He says she has gained a significant amount of weight, is no longer affectionate and stopped cleaning and cooking his favorite meals. Ben says he’s “disgusted” by his wife’s appearance and says if not for their 4-year-old son, he would have left by now. Kelly admits she has gained weight since getting married but says she has lost her self-worth because Ben demeans her every day. She says Ben lost 100 pounds and then turned into a “narcissist” and a “jerk” -- and she suspects he is cheating on her. When Dr. Phil presses Ben for answers, will he get to the truth? And, can this marriage be saved? (OAD: 4-18-14)

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Replied By: lokenhot on Apr 21, 2015, 7:01AM
Would love an update....actually let me clarify that....I would love to see the wife's and child's progress.  As for that oxygen wasting jerk, leave him under the rock that he unfortunately crawled out of.
Replied By: lokenhot on Nov 22, 2014, 9:33AM - In reply to nzder110
I so get what your saying: Its all well and good to take the moral high ground...as long as you can afford it!

I was faced with that situation and trust me, the children wont be damaged if they have to sleep on a friends floor for a few weeks as long as they feel safe and loved.
Replied By: lokenhot on Nov 22, 2014, 8:33AM
That piece of cr*p better be careful what he askes for.  I would love to see Kelly back on the show fit and healthy and giving him the divorce he deserves.
Replied By: lokenhot on Nov 22, 2014, 8:26AM - In reply to bethanie04
Wow, I think you and ben should exchange phone numbers you seem like the perfect match....im pretty sure he's available.
Replied By: nzder110 on Oct 22, 2014, 3:28AM
It is very easy to talk about divorce when you don't have children to take care of, or you are so rich you can just move into another house, or stay at a hotel.  I think this situation does probably call for a divorce, I don't know how you could go home with a man who shows so much contempt, but I do get that the logistics of getting a divorce, especially when you are a stay at home mum would be scarey and hard.  I hope that Dr Phil and her friends and family can provide her with the confidence and the support to leave this man.  She deserves a better life than that, I hope she lives happily ever after.
Replied By: susielyn on Aug 11, 2014, 11:53AM
This guy has been looking in someone's else's mirror.
Replied By: alwaysaskeptic on Aug 9, 2014, 3:44PM - In reply to banksoftheohio
So now you're diagnosing Kelly with mental problems in excusing her decision to stay with her husband, day after day after day? How about laziness, having to get out there and work for a living or the need to have a man, any man, in her life? She trades off the abuse for the luxury of sitting at home and being supported. Complacency is not a mental disorder!
Replied By: alwaysaskeptic on Aug 9, 2014, 3:36PM - In reply to upsydasy
very welcome!
Replied By: upsydasy on Aug 8, 2014, 10:05AM - In reply to alwaysaskeptic
What a nice compliment :o)
Replied By: banksoftheohio on Aug 8, 2014, 5:03AM - In reply to alwaysaskeptic
My next sentence said "the real tragedy would be spending one more day with this loser."  We can see things logically while watching from our homes, but people in their home are seeing something totally different.  I was saying that it is how people who are in this mental fog think, that "this is the way it has to be."  The misery and abuse become normal, they compartmentalize and think only about day-to-day rather than what will be better for the future.   I'm not saying it's right, but that's how they get. Someone has to have true mental problems if he/she is getting to the point where Kelly is; Dr. Phil recognizes that and offered Kelly help with getting her life better. 
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