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(Original Air Date: 03/05/13) Kim says she recently discovered that for the past five years, her husband, Mike, has been pretending to go to work at high-profile jobs, but in reality, he’s been playing video games in the basement and sleeping in his car. She says Mike even convinced her to quit her job of 18 years to move their family to Germany for his new employment opportunity -- that never existed. Mike admits that he lies so often that he can’t even keep track of the stories he's told. Why has he been carrying out this deceit for so long? And, is there anything else he’s hiding? Kim says she never suspected Mike was lying to her -- but looking back, were there warning signs she might have missed? And, can this marriage be saved? Plus, Dr. Phil shares tips from his best-selling book, Life Code: The New Rules for Winning in the Real World, to help Kim stop being victimized and become victim-wise!

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Replied By: smacg76 on Jun 22, 2013, 7:44PM - In reply to jjsonne
Now that re-runs are being aired I, too, would appreciate post-scripts on current status. 

My interest in results of evaluations by the PNP Center continues, as well.

We realize that these are not "60 minute cures", so information on follow-throughs would be so educational.
Replied By: tito2844 on Jun 21, 2013, 3:23PM
I don't know who is the dumb or dumber here...and two fires? remember this man is a pathological liar .he probably did it! this  woman not knowing what is going on ? what is going on in this people's life? how they can survive? what about money they can pay mortgage,bills if is my husband( I "was married" to a pathological liar ) is like this one , I will not be able to love him ,the respect will gone .... I will divorce him PRONTO! this two are a phony!
Replied By: upsydasy on Jun 19, 2013, 7:22AM - In reply to georgiayd
Every time the book is mentioned someone comes on here not to participate in a positive way or to bring anything new to the conversation, but just to complain about Life Code.  Talk about a copycat mentality not to mention distracting as hell to those of us DO wish to take part in these discussions.  Read the book or don’t; who cares.  Besides, as they say ignorance is bliss.  The very fact that they haven’t read the book and never will indicates that they’ve completely missed the point of the entire show.
Replied By: amandacrawford on Jun 18, 2013, 11:33PM
Wow! That was me ten years ago.  I married my ex husband at 25 and three years later, I started having a feeling he wasn't being honest with me.  Our sex life wasn't the same.  I tried to talk to him about it but each time it ended in an argument- screaming.  He has broken doors, walls, put his hands on me.  I finally left him to find out that he wasn't going to school, wasn't working, was addicted to porn per the many magazines in a box in our garage I found after I seperated from him.  I'm so happy I divorced him, I don't have any of his children, I moved on, got a master degree in administration educartional leadership and have moved on with my life and career.   My life  is so much more productive and positive than when I had him in my life.  I dont think I would have gone this far if I would have stayed with my ex.  I learned from my experience, I do what I love, enjoy time with friends, go to church and worship, spend time with my kids (dogs), read, write, go shopping, I enjoy going to the beach and on vacation with friends but I   keep an eye on my checkbook and balance it MYSESLF every month which I never did when I was married. I still haven't met mr. right but that is okay.  I am happy and doing what I want to do with my life right now.
Replied By: georgiayd on Jun 18, 2013, 10:05PM - In reply to smumom54
2 house fires? The guy should be in prison.
Replied By: georgiayd on Jun 18, 2013, 10:02PM - In reply to bbhdapc
I'm sorry for what you've gone through, but if you find yourself dating the same type of woman (liar) again and again, theres something in yourself that you need to work on. Dont scrap the female race just yet, find out why you keep attracting these women.
Replied By: georgiayd on Jun 18, 2013, 9:57PM
What money were they surviving on? Was he committing fraud as well? how she could not know is beyond me, Phil you're a legend but I dont understand why you didn't ask how they were surviving or what happened at tax time.
She needs to get rid of him, he's a terminal liar, he wont change.
Replied By: georgiayd on Jun 18, 2013, 9:25PM - In reply to boblvl
You may watch it every day, but every day someone new is tuning in, he's talking to them, not you, get off the mans back and be glad we have someone like him in the world!
Replied By: jjsonne on Jun 18, 2013, 5:32PM
We're seeing re-runs now.  What have been the results of this and other shows?  Is there a tab on the website I'm missing?  Would be nice to find out what happens to all the people we 'become involved with'.  Good suggestion, right?  Let's get to work on that tab then.  Thanks!
Replied By: bbhdapc on Jun 18, 2013, 4:46PM
I married the Love of My Life in 1969, who was age 17 and I was age 19. I was drafted into the U.S. Army within two months. Two months later, we found we were having our Daughter. Not considering our age, we were so excited but the stress of being drafted and being a Mother, my wife became depressed and anti-social. The following year, after our daughter was born, they came to Germany to begin our family life. My wife was very distant, often shunning me away. This continued for the remainder of our marriage. About a year after returning to civilian life and working, our friends asked me during several one on one conversations, as to why my wife was always picking on me and treating me with such ditain. I told them I didn't know, but it seemed to have become normal to me. Looking back, I was young with no real life experience. My best friend and his wife told me that I should flurt with other women or have an affair to get my wife to fight to keep me. I was very loyal to my vows, plus I was extremely shy when it came to women. I thought about this for several months and my torture in time became almost unbareable. I asked my "friends" and they assured me that my lies would work. I delayed lying for months, but finally after losing almost all of our friends because of how my wife treated me, I gave in out of desperation. One night in bed and trying to fall asleep, I broke down crying. My wife asked what was wrong. I was crying because I was so torn between being treated so badly and telling a lie that I had no clue would work or not. I told my wife that I had an affair. I don't remember the detail I told her, but we both ended up crying. I revealed my deepest love for her and that I would never do that again. She told me she forgave me. We became very close for several months. We no longer continued our friendship with the couple that gave me their recommendations of an affair. We made new friends from where I worked. I was always trusting of my wife around men. While at an evening party at our friends, I could hear comments from other married women at the party. They were wispering that "he doesn't know what's gong on". I finally asked, "what's going on?" I was told that my close work friend was in the Kitchen and then moved outside where he and my wife were making out. I was flabergasted.
I found out this had been going on for months. I tried to desolve the affair, but there was no keeping them apart. I put up with this for the next five years, in which my wife and I had a son. To this day, I have not confirmed that I'm his natural father. My son doesn't know anything about my concerns, and I don't want him to know. As far as I'm concerned he is. My wife and I divorced in 1980, when my daughter was 10 years old and my son just turned 3 years old. The bottom line, talk openly about concerns. Don't in an attempt to resolve issues. I remarried in failure a second time that only lasted a couple of years. I've been divorced since 1984. I can't seem to find a woman that doesn't need a minimum of two men in their lives at all times. I've dated over forty women over the years and found that they have all lied to me.
Single forever.... !!!
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