It is nice to see that there are people that have watched and understood.  I hope you and your family also had a wonerful Easter. 

I am not one to post normally, but just want to say that I hope your family is doing well.  I know that the world only got to see a tiny little bit of your lives, and thanks for that, it was very interesting and I could see similarities to people from my family in yours, and it did make me aware of other peoples personalities and their perceptions to what one family member is doing and how it may be seen by another.

I loved that the dogs were so important to your family, OK I may not let my dogs eat at the table, but it is your home so your rules, what ever 'floats your boat'.  It really made me smile to see how important your dogs are in your lives, I have two Chihuahuas myself, and they are my fur-babies.

I hope your family had a great Easter, and that you all have your health.  I hope Khalood has relaxed a little, and that a little peace has found its way to Jerry. Love to you all and to your pets. 


Louise from New Zealand

I am a member of the family.  I am Jerry, and open for ridicule 'cause that's what you open yourself up for when you put yourself out there for public display.  So, have at it.  Regardless, I can understand your point of view from what you see in the shows regarding Khalood. But with respect to where we are with all of our relationships, all is going very well.  You had an issue for 35 years. We have been married now for almost  32 years.  But, believe it or not, being able to talk it out live with Dr. Phil, and listening to what he has said, then applying his suggestions in between shows has actually worked for us.  I'm not going to debate this, because I have lived it 24/7, where the viewing audience just gets the condensed clips with focus on the issues.  Everyone is entitled to their viewpoint and perception of what, and who we are.  But, we have the reality of how we lived and related before our first Dr. Phil show, and how we are right now.  Based on how our lives and relationships are right now, I'd go though this again with Dr. Phil in a hearbeat.  It's hard to explain, but the guy does a great job of planting the seeds of change that, with us, didn't really take immediatly on each of the shows, but we worked on this in between shows.  If you were to go and look back from where we were on the first show, to where we ended up on our last show ... it tells quite a story of change, and eventual improvement.  That's about all I have to say, and really won't get baited into a debate over what people think versus what is our reality.  I'm good knowing how we turned out, and giving kudos to Dr. Phil for sticking with us.  It's been one helluva ride.

If you truly are a member of Khalood's family I appreciate that you understand Dr. Phil tried to help you, but I am sorry to have to give you a dose of reality, your family will NEVER solve its issues as long as you have Khalood areound. She is the definition of a psychopath, with as main feature that it's just NEVER her fault and then she starts tattling and accusing or play the Drama Queen. You all need to get away from her and as long as you won't she will ruin your life and that is for sure. I lived with one for 35 years and tried and tried to solve issues, make it better, etc. and he ended up ruining my life and twisting my kids beyond recognition. They are toxic to their environment, run, do not walk away. Peace will follow.

The truth is that regardless what you have seen, and what you think, Dr. Phil has had a very positive effect on the issues that we have.  You all see and judge with your own reality, and that is fine.  We live with ours.  The fact is, Our family has moved from issues between Steve and my wife, through several different stages in all of our relationships, with new issues arising, etc., to a point where we are today.  It, like most people issues, has been a process.  I can honestly say that without Dr. Phil taking the time, going through the frustration that is getting through to Khalood, then understanding our whole family dynamic, we would still be stuck back at the way we were on the very first show.  Because of Dr. Phil, and his patience of putting up with all of the ridiculous dysfunctional crap that my family put on display, even at the ridicule of some who thought he was wasting his time, my family is "now" much more of a "family".  We are closer.  Yes, we still have issues, we still have a way to go.  But, we are at least headed in a positive direction, instead of a destructive direction.  Thank you, Dr. Phil, for sticking with us, and helping us get to where we are.  Thank you for believeing is us!  I hope that others who might have similar issues in their family relationships may have learned something from our experience.  If our open display of our dysfunctionality, along with how Dr. Phil's genious led us down the path of continuous improvement, can help others in the viewing audience, then all of the ridicule will have been worth it.  I understand that people who do not have any issues in their life as we do might consider our problem in a much different way, or even dismiss it as gross or unworthy of help.  It is those watching that can relate to us, and our issues, that really understand.  I hope these people have learned something from our experience with Dr. Phil and his show.    

I am in South Australia and today I saw the show where DrPhil went to visit Khalood, now I had never heard of this woman before, I don't get to watch the show very often, but i have looked back on other shows, What a complicated woman Khalood is.  No I do not think of her as an abusive mother,  I do believe she has provided a lovely home for her family, BUT her daughter has taken advantage of that,  Khalood is not a control freak, and she sure is not a nutter.  She is a mother and yes her daughter is LAZY.  First of all at the age of 27 years the daughter and the son inlaw should NOT be living there unless they are prepared to contribute to the family.  7 Dogs GET RID OF A FEW.  Dogs at the dinner table, get real not helpful for family meal times.  Why didn't Khalood just go live in the townhouse herself?  simple she should not have to give up her home.  I would like to see an update on a month without them interacting.  Khalood is a mother who rightfully worries about her kid, but let me put this in perspective. Her daughter moves out of home, at least she still has air in her lungs, and is breating.  Unlike some mothers who have lost their child through death.  Khalood cannot live her kids life. she must let them live it themselves. it would be different if Fallon was a teenager.  Fallon needs to step up to the plate and not rely on her mother. Fallon looks like she is really lazy.  a month away will prove that, maybe she might be more considerate of her mother when she has to do everything herself. 

Khalood is ok in my books. 

I am in South Australia and today I saw the show where DrPhil went to visit Khalood, now I had never heard of this woman before, I don't get to watch the show very often, but i have looked back on other shows, What a complicated woman Khalood is.  No I do not think of her as an abusive mother,  I do believe she has provided a lovely home for her family, BUT her daughter has taken advantage of that,  Khalood is not a control freak, and she sure is not a nutter.  She is a mother and yes her daughter is LAZY.  First of all at the age of 27 years the daughter and the son inlaw should NOT be living there unless they are prepared to contribute to the family.  7 Dogs GET RID OF A FEW.  Dogs at the dinner table, get real not helpful for family meal times.  Why didn't Khalood just go live in the townhouse herself?  simple she should not have to give up her home.  I would like to see an update on a month without them interacting.  Khalood is a mother who rightfully worries about her kid, but let me put this in perspective. Her daughter moves out of home, at least she still has air in her lungs, and is breating.  Unlike some mothers who have lost their child through death.  Khalood cannot live her kids life. she must let them live it themselves. it would be different if Fallon was a teenager.  Fallon needs to step up to the plate and not rely on her mother. Fallon looks like she is really lazy.  a month away will prove that, maybe she might be more considerate of her mother when she has to do everything herself. 

Khalood is ok in my books. 

Not gonna lie .. I've never watched one full episode of Dr. Phil until I randomly came across the KHALOOD EPISODES and I'm absolutely hooked in following up to see the progress.

Does anybody know when an update is going to air?

Thank you.

i totaly agree with you, this is not love, this is about having control and power over people around them. What kind of mother raise her children like she do and gets awa with it. The way she have raised them is CHILDABUSE and there have to be lawes in U.S.A , as well as here n Norway, about mentally abusing children. The father is aswell to blame who have not taken them out of this situation many years ago. This women is selfsentered, narsistic and for sure she need to be put in a mental institution to get help. And, by the way, I have 3 girl myself and would never behave like Khalood. She is not happy in her marriage and let everyone else pay for it. Shame on you Khalood!!!

Most people love with all their heart but they don't verbally abuse their only son-in-law like that.  If that is loving her daughter then her hate must be phsycotic.  She is self-centred, selfish and unhappy with her own life to be so cruel to her daughter's husband.  Her daughter chose him - it wasn't a lottery!  You are right about one thing - Kahlood needs phsychiatric help.