So I have been seeing this guy since Last August. We have a great connection and I just love spending my time and energy on him. We haven't been seeing anyone else and that's jus fine with us. So what the problem? He won't make it official with me. He won't say we are going together. I always call him my guy or my man but do I get the same? Absolutely not. I told him having no title its fine but in all honest I feel if he cares about me he would make the effort to commit to me. I'm wondering if I'm just make something out of nothing or what I should do to make him want the title?
I felt the same way but Not True love will come and when it does its gonna be awesome because the ones i thought were for me actually God didn't want to ruin my life so He's preparing the right one as we speek!! Keep the Faith!!!
well its probably gonna be a a lonely one have a friend but he doesn't seem to want to commit and its always like that with every man i get they want to be able to see me when its conveniant for them with no strings attahed but i get it they only do it because i allow them to soo,,, until i put my foot down and let them know i need more i'll be lonely ever val day
It sounds like this person has done many hurtful things...yet can't seem to bring the relationship to a close.
I've been in a similar relationship...our lifestyles may be different....however we have been through many of the same types of hurtful events. My guy is always looking around for the girl of his dreams...yet won't end it with me. Oh, I know I have responsibility here...I should end it and move forward, never looking back. It's hard.
I have spent over the last 10 years asking, weighting, and praying, "to have some one to love me". To have that one guy in my life that loves me for me. No matter how long i weight it has never happened. as far as i'm consirned there is no such thing as "mr wright" or mr who ever" Even when i did have a husband his time was not spent with me. Valentines day is a day i have grown to not like and am not a fan of it. Each Holoday, and birthday that passes by i am at home with my children. No offance but most guys do not like to be responcable when it comes to children. This year i have decided that for once in my life i am thnking of my children and my self only. To me Feb 14 is just another day on the calendar that passes by me each year. I have given up on that dream and seen that what is real is the only thing i have stairing me in the face. wich is just me and my children and that's it. No guy i have came across has ever been a "man" toward me. And so for me this day is noting but just another day.
I'm not looking forward to Valentine's Day this year. I'm single, lonely and frustrated. No matter what I do I can't seem to find someone. It feels like I'll be single forever. I'm working on finsihing school and I'm getting my life together. I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong.
I have a situation that is about to put me over the edge! I was in a relationship for 11 yrs with a good person that had one fault as opposed to my many. The fault was a major concern from the beginning, and became increasingly worse over the years. I was hurt when I first found out about the infidelity. I was new to this lifestyle, but had heard it was a prevalent problem.
It was customary for my partner to go out of town on business, and customary for him to arrange dinner dates while there. I would find emails, and other evidence of his infidelity.
I am now 8yrs into the relationship, and allot of water has passed under the bridge. We decide to open our relationship, and hopefully capture some of the passion that fleets so quickly, or at least make the other jealous.
This went on for about 3yrs, and we made some good friends, but it did make the grass look greener on the other side.
Now present day:
I'm now living elsewhere, but my Ex partner and I work together...most times it's good, but at times really bad. After telling me to get out, not letting me pack, and telling me to leave the house keys, he wants me back.
I'm living and loving another that I was seeing after realizing that the 11yrs were a mistake, and he treats me like a king and the sex is amazing, but still and will always love my Ex...I'm confused as to where to proceed from here, as I'm torn between two lovers!
I've been in a similar relationship...our lifestyles may be different....however we have been through many of the same types of hurtful events. My guy is always looking around for the girl of his dreams...yet won't end it with me. Oh, I know I have responsibility here...I should end it and move forward, never looking back. It's hard.
It was customary for my partner to go out of town on business, and customary for him to arrange dinner dates while there. I would find emails, and other evidence of his infidelity.
I am now 8yrs into the relationship, and allot of water has passed under the bridge. We decide to open our relationship, and hopefully capture some of the passion that fleets so quickly, or at least make the other jealous.
This went on for about 3yrs, and we made some good friends, but it did make the grass look greener on the other side.
Now present day:
I'm now living elsewhere, but my Ex partner and I work together...most times it's good, but at times really bad. After telling me to get out, not letting me pack, and telling me to leave the house keys, he wants me back.
I'm living and loving another that I was seeing after realizing that the 11yrs were a mistake, and he treats me like a king and the sex is amazing, but still and will always love my Ex...I'm confused as to where to proceed from here, as I'm torn between two lovers!