I everyone, i,m from Portugal, a beautiful country with a lots of sum a water. And you, where´s your country??

as usual , Dr Phony ignores the real solution to most sex crimes...    I used to be a young man with a very high 'sex libido' or whatever you want to call it, especially in college.  I got laid A LOT, but I'm sure most guys weren't as 'lucky' as I was; I had a lot going for me and NEVER had sex unless it was 100% consensual.  (Never needed to - they came to me !! )

However, I can see how some 'not-so-lucky' guys would try to force sex upon a woman that was not completely consensual.  The male body at that age needs a 'release' to deal with the increased hormonal levels, a release which masturbation cannot solve!

if you want a solution to 90% of these sex crimes, LEGALIZE PROSTITUTION.

IT IS THE ONLY ANSWER!!!   IN my opinion, this would also go a long way towards PREVENTING sex crimes against children, as well.  I've never known any perverts, but I would imagine a legal -of-age prostitute that looks younger could provide these perverts with a legal release, therefore lessening the crimes against children.

You 'holier-than-though' Christian types need to wake up and realize that some 'solutions' aren't going to fit your 'biblical' views sometimes.  Well GET THE F OVER IT!!!

LEGALIZE & TAX PROSTITUTION !!!!!!!

THIS IS THE ONLY ANSWER !!!!    WAKE UP YOU MORONS !!!!!!!

MAKE CHEAP P**SY AVAILABLE TO THE MASSES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I need some serious help. My 7 year old step son was talking with his mother last night on the phone when he told her a story about a boy and his dad and the boys father was beating him to death with a board. My husband and I are just beside our selfs. We have no clue how he even came up with something like this. He doesn't got to friends houses unless were with him, and even when he does they are playing outside. We DO NOT watch this kind of stuff on tv, and he doesn't use the internet by himself. We are stationed overseas so he goes to a DODES school and I know he is not hearing it there. What do I do. We have 2 other children 4 year old with Autism and my 1 year old. I do not want them making up things like this. We have talked with him about if he seen it somewhere or is this just a made up story, and he says he kinda made it up. Not to sure what that means. I need help. I don't want this to progress into something worse. Is this something that could be mental??
If anyone can help or give me advise please feel free.

Thanks,
 sunshineangl

Im 21 years old and have a mom who is only 38. She raised me all on her own but has always been very bipolar and has had many health problems. I have grown up with constant anxiety because of my moms mental state. My own aunt doesnt even talk to her because it got so bad. I moved in with my aunt and uncle when I was 18 and I never felt so stress free in my life. I then moved back in with my mom for a year and then am now in my own apartment with my cousin because I just cant live with my mom anymore. I support myself 100% and work full time. I even bought my own first car and have NEVER asked my mom for a dime. While I was living with my mom last year she hit rock bottom and went into a really bad depression and slept for 6 months straight. She does not have to work do to her health problems so she never left the house. I finally had to tell her that I cant take driving home and wondering if I was going to find her dead. She stopped sleeping as much but then got rid of her car so she didnt have to make the payments and then she got evicted from the apartment and had to move to something way cheaper. I really feel as though my mom depends on people just giving and giving to her so she wont have to better herself. A huge problem is that she is ADDICTED to a few of the meds she is on including Vicodin and take 5 or more a day. I dont make enough money to help her financially and I just feel so sick to my tummy everyday stressed about her. Everytime she calls me I get a sick feeling inside and IT SUCKS. I want my mom back the one I know can make it thru anything. When I try talking to her about anything she yells at me or hangs the phone up, she just gets really defensive and tells me its my own issue if I worry about her but she doesnt understand that its not when I have to worry about how she is going to get enough money to get another car or pay her rent. I told her to talk to someone to talk about all of her emotional problems and to try to see what she can do to get off her meds but she wonttttt. It sucks seeing mother and daughters walking around the mall and knowing that my mom cant be like the other moms. I feel like I am the mother and she is the daughter. I HAVE LOST MY MOM! Sometimes I wish I was not alive just so I wouldnt have to worry about her. I cant make her change only she can but she is not willing to. Do I tell her I am cutting her out of my life until she starts to help herself?????? PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE I NEED HELP. (Sorry if this is all on going and kind of out of order I just have so much to get out) I need a strangers advice and not someone that is attached.

It is not a favorite activity to cope with change as you age. It is far more comfortable tohave things go smoothly as they are now-today.

I just wanted to comment on the show that aired in Sydney (Australia)about parents who seperated and have children and are in conflict.I am going through the same thing cause i have a 17wk old baby to a guy who i thought was the one i would journey through life with and have seperated recently and are now going to court to see who the judge see's as most appropriate to have jcustody of the child.We have tried making arrangements on our own but failed then we went to mediation and we aren't eligible due to the fact that their has been violence in the relation ship so the last straw which is unfortunate cause of all the time,stress and money is family law court.The father of the baby is very childlike and does not let me see the baby cause he does not trust me and when ever i ring to see how the baby is doing he wont answer the phone so then i have to text message him and he rarely replies its so frustrating and it hurts to have to communicate with him like this.All i want is that of the best intrest of the baby i want her to have a secure home and to have a cooperative relationship with the father so we can provide the child with what she deserves i want him to let go of ol and stale issues and to grow up and work together and focus on raising a healthy happy child who has both her parents in her life.I know in the long run that all this undealt with conflict and immaturity will affect the baby when she gets older and all through her life this is his first child and she is so young he does not have much experience as a parent and maybe he needs some kind of help outside of this it just worries me that if hes not willing to give our child what we are responsible for that she may make bad decisions in her life that could effect her future.I am  very honest and openminded about whats going on i am dissappointed that we could not make this work cause i am capable to provide that and am willing i know that we are no longer a family and i accept that but we will always be the parents to this child and that is my main concern to do what is right to be the best parent i can be and to resolve our problems so we can all move forward into the future and be happy.(the date of the show was 14.10.08)thank you  

Hope to lose, lose , lose with the support of all my friends!!!!

I really think that if we started giving these scum bags the same sentences as we do to someone that has commited a murder instead of just giving them a slap on the hand maybe some of this would stop. This makes me sick to my stomach to hear these little girls talking about sex when they should be talking and playing with dolls. The men and women that not only sell these children but the ones buying them are the sickest and most dangerous people on the face of this planet and something drastic needs to be done and fast. This epidemic is getting worse by the year. When is our government going to say enough is enough, these people are deystroying lives and getting away with it. If they had harsher consequences then maybe things would start getting better. I understand that the men buying these children are sick in the head and need help but why let them out on the streets to keep doing it.LOCK THEM UP AND THROW AWAY THE KEY!!!!!!!!! They dont get better the temptations will always be there so how can any of them say I'm better when it is in their heads?  Im sure they can recover but from what i've seen in this world its getting harder and harder for them to fight temptations. I dont know maybe its just me but I really think they need to go to jail for the rest of their lives when they get caught the first time cause you know they arent gonna stop they just get sneaker and sneaker. Thanks for listening!

I get so frustrated at men and I get upset with women that allow men to walk all over them. I went thru this 4 years ago and happy as ever now. I went thru this for 15yrs.... why do men think they don't have to deal with their issues instead of sleeping around?

• It is seemingly so that the world crisis in economic structure has brought about some scare mungering from media and what we as a race have become to identify ouselves with as a representation of who ,what we r.. If a loss of a house or our car or even our wardrobe is the place some of us are at then its ok. However, how we react or the decisions we make r vital. Its NOT the end of the world. We are" born with a bare bum and going out with a bare bum "and cant take these phyisical contents with us. Teach the YOUNG and OTHERS sometimes its not fair wat happens but its our CHOICE of  for how to deal with it.Love,honesty,courage,strength,faith can never be taken from us it is always inside waiting for us to allow ourselves to use them at all times. Those of us who have lost someone really close will enlighten the world of the importance of spending our time and the richness "our children,fathers,mothers,wives,husbands ,friends" and having them to love and love us is more than giving the car or house back to the bank thats the risk..... my opinion and space