I saw the previews of the next week's show...I am speechless. I am disapointed with what I saw. We really do have choices, BIG or small, and all I can say is, she made hers.

Couple days ago I found out that my ex-girlfriend (partner) has been contacting (emailing, texting, Skyp-ing) my boyfriend/fiance of 11 years (on and off). It is not the fact that they were doing this which has me deeply "broken", but the fact that they were hiding it from me. I suspected something earlier and they both denied and stop using the phone and when above and beyond to conceal the conversation. The conversations weren't just "how was your day?" thype conversations, they were of a sexual nature. Very inappropriate for the two people who say the "love" me and would never hurt me.
In the past 4 days I have not been sleeping  or eating, lost 5lbs and have been having headaches cause I don't know what to do. I love them both, her as a friend and am deeply in Love with him. He really wants to work it out, and she has been apologizing every since.
Any Suggestions?? Really Really need some suggestions.

Hi Dr. Phil, I'm 22 yrs old right now.  At the age of 17 I joined the Army and met my husband after 7 months of being active duty.  We got married and now we have 2 children.  Before our second child I decided to leave the Army because I couldn't come up with a stable family care plan.  He is still in right now.  I had my little one 5 months ago, and ever since I have been home with the baby I have been very excited and happy with our new baby.  I believe after a few weeks I started to feel very emotional and always have negative thoughts in my head.  I am very stressed, somedays I wake up and go through the day and at the end I feel like "ok i think i have no problems.  Now, when the baby I had help from my husband for the 10 days of maternity leave the Army  gave him.  Now after he went back to work I have been always the one to get up eveytime the baby cries.  I know he knows that I'm at the edge of blowing up, because there's been one time he offered to watch the kids and let me go get a haircut.  But other than that he's been having excuses about he's really tired and he's had a long rough day; that's when I just suck it up and handle the kids and other house chores.    Ok, so let me get to my question, there has been many times where I would just be by myself thinking about taking my life...one time we got into an arguement and I went out for a walk and talked to a friend.  My friend also happened to work for husband and they know each other.  I never told him that I have talked to her about some things.  After a few months I decided to tell him and he went ballistic saying that you shouldve went to someone else instead of my co-worker.  At that time we are basically new to the Post in Germany and haven't really met no one.  I told him that I was desperate and I needed someone to talk.  I told him many times that I have been thinking about commiting suicide.  I dont think he believes my anyway, because he went on about how I've ruined his image at work.  But I told my friend that this was between me and her and I trusted her not to tell or say anything, and she hasnt up till now. So anyway, do you think I'm still having post-partum depression and I need to seek help or is it jus all in my head?

thank you Dr. Phil I hope to hear a response from you.

• Hi Dr.Phil,my name is Leo .I am a 34 year old male that live in Westland ,MI.I watched your show on Thursday about the cheating men and mistresses.Now my opinion is there are two types of people in this world.One is that women who really want to live by the honesty of marriage and there are some that get married and see something different in society or another person that they want in there relationship and goes for it.Now also as well as the women,there are men who want the marriage or relationship to work,but again there are those men that can't help but  to see all the eye candy out there that they wish they had in there relationship.To sum it up both parties can be emotional,physically, and mentally cheating in most cases.Emotionally,by feeling sad that what they are feeling towards another person .Mentally,by stressing over what to do when thinking strongly about another person other than their mates.Physical,by just doing it with out any regrets what so ever.       

I view myself as a very emotional being.Sometimes I wish I could feel less.I find my emotions cuase me to worry to much about the things I cannot change such as personal loss, the loss that other's endure.How does one learn to care but still move on?

I have been cheated for ninteen yrs tried so many things to fix my marrige nothing worked left my husband after 19 yrs. but never blamed anybody other then my husband

Alex, if you truly want custody of your children, you need to work for it.  Your children are gifts and a privilege and honor to bring up.  You need to stop making childlike faces on TV directed at your mom and Dr. Phil..and listen to the advise  that is being offered to you on the show.  You continue to whine that you need support...you are receiving tremendos support and counsel on the show, but are too consumed with how your sister gets more love  than you do. Your mom has been there for you....and you don't even see it because you are constantly playing the victim.  Put you children first.  They need you.  Be that mother to them that you are asking your mom to be to you.

Hello,
My name is Dorcena "Nena" Scott. I am 18 years old. I have recently come upon a life changing decision. I have decided to find my biological father. I have never met him. His name is Paul Sprung, and he would be 60 years old. I've thought about finding him for quite some time, and decided that I shouldn't wait any longer.

I have tried finding him through different websites, but they all cost money. I get so close to finding information, and then it's taken away. It's almost cruel.

I don't want anything from him, and I have nothing to give. All I want is a sense of knowing. If you know any websites or places I can look that are free that may get me any closer in trying to find him, I would be forever grateful.

I know that when I find him, that he may even refuse to speak to me. But I know I have to try. If you could help me in any way, please let me know. I do not hold too high of expectations for him, I barely hold any at all.

I have a wonderful step-father who adopted me. I couldn't have asked for a better dad. But I am getting older. I need to know. It's too late to be a father, but it's not to late to be a friend.

Anything would be greatly appreciated, even an email back saying that you can't help me.

Thank you so much for your time,
Nena

email: chasingshadows7@yahoo.com

I recently found out that I am going to be a father again in the new year. Time to build up my Life Insurance and Group Insurance business so my wife can be a stay at home mom.

The best thing in life is my family