This picture was taken sept 09 and it makes my heart smile everytime i look at it.... My real potential is shown in that little boy of mine...Everyone, even my parents, always told me Im a quitter and cant commit to anything... Well look at me now! :) My son is an absolute miracle if I didnt have him I dont know where I would have ended up... He has made me who I am today... I wouldnt have left his abusive father, went back to school to get my diploma not GED, and find the love of my life... Everything happens for a reason and if you always put your shild first and yourself everything will fall into place! :)

I am not to good at this computer thing. To continue.this hurts me deeply and she turns to me for advice, but I feel I have painted myself into a corner because of my beliefs. I feel my onesided opinions will harm her or her children. Every book that I find convincingly argues to stay as strongly as the next argues to leave. What's right? Who's right? Do I just wait for the paint to dry and walk away?

CLUE: Stays cool on ice

ok.... so this is a long story.... after being with a married man for 6 years he is finally divorced and we are living together. This was not a typical "affair" during those 6 years we lived together on and off.... so here we are... because of obviouse reasons my boyfriend's children do not like me.. i get that... he still see's his grandchildren and maintains a relationship with his children.

i have a son who is the same age as one of his grandkids.... this weekend is my son' s birthday... he wants to bring his grandkids but doesnt want to tell his daughter where he is taking them because he thinks she will be angry.

i also have a HUGE issue with the fact that he may run into his exwife... i am always obsessing and wondering if he is talking to her etc... i guess because he had been back and forth between the two of us for so long... i am TOTALLY insecure... HELP

Dr. Phil,
   You did a show on drug addiction about 3 weeks ago.  You told how easy it was to get pain medication in Flordia. My girlfriend saw your show while I was working. She  went to Flordia to see family and while she was there she went to the pain clinic you talked about on the show. Yes thanks to you she found a new outlet to get pain medication.  I thought you helped people get over drug problems. I never thought you would help people find new ways to get drugs. You should not have told  where it was that easy to get drugs.  I know you mean good but I think you did not do a good job with that show.

With all the struggle and strife in this world it would be nice if more people were albe to understand each other. Especially the problems in the Middle East are largely due to lack of communication. That's why more people should learn foreing languages and learn how to communicate with each other. At the moment I'm learning Arabic and it's great. The Arabic alphabet and writing system can be quite hard at first, but ultimately very rewarding.

So here's my appeal to you all: learn another language and make this place a better world.

Peace!

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hi dr.phil iam a very young south african guy,iam an orphan with 2 brothers.i can tell you life is just stressful for people like us.for me to find a job its so difficult even though iam fully qualified for the job.at one stage i was not employed due to the fact that my left eye could not see clearly and i knew that i can do that job.i have no passion of doing anything in my life,even though iam writting to you now i dont know how you can help me with me being on the other site of the world.even though my parents have all past and i have a young brother to look after i just dont know what to do at times and i dont know what to tell him at other times when he is doing things wrong.he has not fully adapted to the situation of us leaving without a parents.i just dont know dr.phil maybe even if i can receive ur email on how to help me it will be very helping.iam lost dr.phil iam loosing hope and passion of life as a whole.thanks for just creating such a good website whereby people like me can express our problems.i thank you

My husband and I have been married for 9-1/2 yrs and have 2 children, 7 and 3. My husband has been having an 'emotional' affair with the same cougar on and off for 3 yrs. I have given him 3 opportunities to be a faithful husband and each time he has chosen the same path, the unfaithful. The last time I took him back, I sat him down and bluntly explained to him that I would  not, under any circumstance, forgive this hurtful behavior again. He graciously agreed to be true to me and even cried when I put my wedding ring back on. Well, 3 months later, he was back in touch with this woman on a daily basis again, lying to me, denying their interaction.....I am so devistated that he has so selfishly destroyed our family. He is begging for another chance but I cannot begin to give him a fourth opportunity to break my heart but do feel that my emotional business is unfinished? Is this what you are referring to, Dr. Phil, that I should not be ready to call it quits? Very confused!!

At one point in my life I felt that defending your Country through Military service was one of the highest honors somebody could bestow on their fellow American Citizen. Since my time in service and deployment over seas in the war on terror, I still feel I have honored my country with my service but would like to know why reciprocation from the general public is less than desireable.
I am not, by any means, putting down Americans or Immigrants that utelize the systems intended to help people through bad circumstances in life. I am a bit upset that American military veterans have to fight just as hard at home to get benefits they deserve from their service to their Country as they did abroad. Only to see generations of people who suck the system instead of getting off their lazy asses and contributing to society like most other Americans. Lazy is not a disability...... Why is it so difficult for Veterans to get deserved benefits and then get scoffed by civilians saying veterans only want more...... for free???